As to lowering another in your mind? Doesn’t hold, not unless they agree with you. Happens sometimes, but rarely in satisfying ways. Another lowering you in their mind? Can’t happen unless you agree. A big no-effect fantasy elevation change, valid one location only – IN them. It’ll bounce right off you, if you #1 don’t want it, and #2 know their judgment’s real size, worth and location. Seeing as you know your #2, if you do, knowing another’s is no problemo. You stop focusing on their size or weight or height, key in on the Stros vs All Y’all, Houston Baseball World Champions Shirt also I will do this substance of what they say, and separate and weigh. Find their judgment’s worth that way. Judgment always proclaims its worth in verdicts, to all assessors not distracted by inner height and weight claims (or perceived claims of others). When you know what’s false and invalid regardless, you stop keying in on that.